TESTIMONIALS

“I am very new to tantric practices, and Shiva J was very open, honest, easy to speak with, and very educational. He answered all of my questions and explained every step of our upcoming session.

I am not a very trusting person (especially of men) and was immediately at ease with him. He radiates a calm and safe energy that is so very rare. When we started our session, I felt comfortable and was able to be honest in regard to my traumas, issues, fears, and intentions. I had a couple of minor anxious moments, but once I expressed them, we did some breathing exercises, and I immediately felt at ease again.

Although emotional, the session was so transformative. I left there feeling seen, calm, and as if a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. I am one who tends to take care of others and seldom address my own needs, and I left my session with a newfound love and appreciation for self care. I look forward to working with him again. I can not recommend him or his services enough!”

“Okay, ladies, I’ll start this review by telling you that I identify as a lesbian, so the idea of seeking this type of service from a man was the farthest from my mind possible. Secondly, I’ve personally known Shiva J for almost two decades, and to be honest, when I first met him, I didn’t think highly of him. In fact, I thought he was just another arrogant man with a chip on his shoulder. However, over the years, I’ve seen him grow and work on himself so much that he has become almost unrecognizable to me and has become one of my closest friends. He has developed a sense of calm, peace, empathy, care, and compassion that are very rare in men, or else I’d never have considered going to him for this work. His ability to hold space and just listen has greatly improved, and his eagerness to learn, grow, and be a better human being has never waned.

When he first told me about this work, I must admit, I felt my body tighten and retract. The idea of allowing a man to touch me in such an intimate way made me practically convulse in horror. I’ve had my fair share of experiences with men and their energy, so there was no way in the world I was going to go to Shiva for this. But one night at dinner out with our friend group, he said something that echoed in my mind for several months after: “If not me, then who? And if you have a better way to help heal the masculine/feminine divide within you, please let me know so I can learn about it and help more people.” I pondered these thoughts for several years and watched silently as he helped more and more women, until I finally decided, okay, I can do this.

When I told him I was ready, I half expected him to do a dance of celebration or make some other sort of dramatic expression, but he just held space and then asked me if he could explain the work in detail, which put me at ease.

After experiencing Shiva’s work firsthand, I can confidently say that he approaches his practice with integrity, respect, and a genuine desire to facilitate healing. My initial reservations were quickly dissolved by his professionalism and unwavering support throughout the process. I left feeling empowered, seen, and grateful for the opportunity to challenge my preconceptions. If you’re considering his services, I encourage you to take that leap of faith. You might just find, as I did, that healing knows no gender. And yes, I am still gay, and I will likely go see him again in the future.”

“I embarked on my first Tantra massage with a hint of apprehension, having never experienced it before. Shiva J skillfully alleviated my concerns by providing a comprehensive overview of the session, detailing both what to expect and what not to expect. The entire experience proved to be not only pleasant but also remarkably enlightening. Unexpectedly, I gained profound insights into myself, accompanied by a cathartic emotional release that seemed to purge long-held emotions from my body. Shiva J’s expertise in creating a supportive atmosphere was evident, making the entire process delightful and enriching. Without a doubt, I would eagerly embrace the experience again. My heartfelt gratitude to Shiva J for fostering comfort and recommending insightful books for further enlightenment.”

“As a fellow Tantric practitioner, I have engaged with various professionals in the field, making me a discerning judge of their expertise. Setting high standards for my experiences, I often find myself mentally critiquing sessions, which can sometimes impede my ability to fully immerse myself.

This man, however, exceeded my expectations. If the session had concluded after the bodywork, I would have left profoundly satisfied. His mastery of every movement and touch showcased a remarkable level of professionalism, care, and what I can only describe as ‘manhandling’—a term inadequately capturing the methodical, intentional, and yet sensually firm approach evident from our initial conversation to the moment he closed the door behind me. It was precisely what I needed to relinquish control to my perpetually in-charge inner masculine.

During one poignant moment, Shiva J locked eyes with me—an uncommon occurrence in bustling NYC where I reside. His ability to see and understand my vulnerability without uttering a word transported me to a space I wished to inhabit indefinitely. Throughout the entire experience, my mind remained blissfully free; I was not trapped in my usual cerebral musings.

The overall encounter was nothing short of a wonderful and healing journey. I express my sincere gratitude and eagerly anticipate future sessions with Shiva J. I’m genuinely open to traveling for them again; such is the profound impact of his expertise and care.”

“I am grateful to have experienced a transformative bodywork session with Shiva J. Prior to our session, I grappled with feelings of shutdown and fear towards men. However, Shiva J’s approach created a safe and supportive environment, allowing me to open up and realize my own sense of control. The session served as a catalyst for me to establish boundaries that fostered a profound sense of safety.

One standout aspect of Shiva J’s practice is how he seamlessly integrates a lifetime of learning into his sessions. His dedication to exploring Tantric ways and various modalities is evident, and it significantly contributed to the unique and refreshing nature of the experience. The session provided me with a newfound freedom and happiness, altering the trajectory of my life.

As a longtime friend of Shiva J, I can personally attest to his authentic pursuit of knowledge and passion for Tantric practices. His services are a harmonious blend of intuition and knowledge, delivered with gentleness and openness. During my session, I felt deeply respected and honored, with Shiva J consistently checking in to ensure my comfort and boundaries were upheld.

I wholeheartedly recommend Shiva J as a practitioner for those seeking a transformative and honoring experience. His commitment to creating a safe space and integrating diverse modalities makes him a valuable guide in the community and on the journey toward self-discovery and well-being for anyone who seek him out.”

“Shiva J provided a safe, clean container in which I was able to explore my own desire and energy. Words can’t adequately capture how beautiful it was! Shiva J is a highly skilled professional who truly wants to support women in expressing their highest selves. I can’t wait to work with him again!!”

“I had the most transformative experience with Shiva J, the healer, during a tantra massage session for women. From the moment I walked in, I felt an overwhelming sense of safety and trust. Shiva J’s expertise and skill were immediately apparent, guiding me through the process with care and compassion. As the session progressed, a wave of emotions surfaced, allowing me to connect with myself on a profound level. Shiva J’s mastery in the art of tantra massage is truly remarkable, and I am incredibly grateful for the healing journey I was able to embark on under his guidance. I highly recommend Shiva J to anyone seeking a safe, nurturing, and emotionally enriching tantra massage experience.”

“I’ve had the privilege of knowing Shiva J for the past five years, and during this time, I’ve come to appreciate him as a true gentleman who deeply respects and cherishes women. While our friendship has always been based on trust and support, I recently had the opportunity to experience a unique service from him that left me feeling truly remarkable.

I must admit that seeking this experience from a male friend was a unique choice, but my trust in Shiva J made it feel like the right decision. From the moment the session began, I never felt more safe, held, and cared for. His presence was not only professional but also incredibly respectful and attentive.

The experience itself was nothing short of transformative. Shiva J has a unique ability to create an environment where you can truly let go and embrace the beauty of your own being. I felt as though I was being pampered and cherished in a way that words can hardly describe.

I want to assure other women that Shiva J is not just an amazing friend but also an exceptional provider of a unique and healing experience. His dedication to providing a safe, nurturing, and empowering environment is truly exceptional. If you’re considering his services, I wholeheartedly encourage you to take that step. You’ll be in the hands of a man who understands and appreciates the beauty and strength of women.

Thank you, Shiva J, for your unwavering friendship and the extraordinary experience you provided. You truly are a remarkable soul.

With deep appreciation and gratitude, your friend always,  Denise.”

“Thank you, Shiva J,  for creating a beautiful place to land and practice receiving fully.

I enjoyed having a cup of tea with you and discussing important things like boundaries and consent to aid me in feeling safe in the cozy and comfortable container you created just for me.

I sensed you were really dialed in to my intentions for our appointment, and you led the way beautifully and with great skill and wisdom.

I felt completely melted and at peace when I left your studio, and I am grateful for you creating this wonderful opportunity for women to come home to themselves and connect with body and heart.
Thank you for your dedication to this path of supporting women. “

“As someone who has always been intrigued by the art of self-discovery and holistic well-being, I recently embarked on a profound journey through the realm of tantric massage. The experience left me rejuvenated and with a newfound appreciation for the connection between mind, body, and spirit.

From the moment I stepped into the serene and ethereal ambiance of the studio, I was met with an atmosphere of tranquility and respect. Shiva J is a knowledgeable guide in the realm of tantric arts, and took the time to establish an open and comfortable dialogue, ensuring that my intentions, expectations, and boundaries were understood and respected.

The session itself was a symphony of sensations that transcended the physical realm. Unlike conventional massages that merely focus on relieving physical tension, the tantric massage delved into a more profound domain. Shiva J skillfully combined various massage techniques with rhythmic breathing exercises and gentle, intentional touches that ignited a deep sense of awareness within me.

As the massage progressed, the boundaries between the physical and the spiritual began to blur. The session was a journey of self-exploration, embracing vulnerability and shedding preconceived notions. It was as though layers of stress and emotional burdens were gently peeled away, leaving space for a renewed sense of vitality and self-acceptance.

The effects of the tantric massage extended beyond the massage table, influencing my interactions, mindset, and overall well-being in a remarkably positive manner. In essence, the tantric massage experience transcended my expectations. It was a holistic journey that harmonized the elements of touch, breath, and connection. I wholeheartedly recommend this experience to those seeking a profound encounter with their inner selves, a revitalization of their spirit, and a newfound appreciation for the intricate connection between body and soul.”

“I met Shiva J at a workshop he was host of and immediately knew I wanted to book a private session with him.  At our first session I experienced so much I can hardly put it in words, but let’s just say I was able to let go of nearly a decade’s worth of emotional pain, fear, guilt and shame.  

A friend told me about Shiva J and I pondered over it for a few weeks. Eventually, I sent him an email, describing myself and expressing my concerns about my older age. He reassured me that age wasn’t an issue, and when we spoke on the phone, it felt like talking to an old friend.

We planned a meeting, and as I took a Lyft to his apartment, I found myself questioning if I should follow through. I rationalized that I would be safe since it was an apartment with neighbors, not a secluded house.

It had been quite some time since I’d felt vulnerable around someone. I decided to dress up in something quite feminine for this as if it was a date. The experience was so simple and yet; so different! Our first meeting was neither unpleasant nor wholly satisfying. It was a respectful interaction, with Shiva J asking for consent at each step. A part of me was concerned about how I appeared to him, but after a while, I realized that it didn’t matter what he thought of me and he helped me release the shame I was having around my aging body.

What attracts me most to this unique connection is the anticipation and the fact that for the time we are together, I’m with someone whose sole focus is to make me feel comfortable in my body. There’s no expectation for reciprocation. Rarely in life do you find a situation where it’s all about your well-being and nothing else. You don’t have to put on a façade. You don’t have to make anyone else feel good. There are few experiences in life quite so focused on your own needs.”

“I had been in search of a service like this for quite some time and am delighted to have discovered Shiva J. If you’re a woman in need of compassionate, male interaction in a clean, secure setting, I wholeheartedly recommend him. I’m a solitary woman who prefers meaningful engagement over random encounters, and Shiva J fulfilled my desires on multiple levels. Do not hesitate; this is a splendid indulgence to grant yourself.”

“The session was soothing, and I found my apprehension melting away. As Shiva J navigated my body, my own reactions surprised me, longing for more even before he was ready. Without revealing too much, I can say Shiva knows his craft. The leisurely approach was enthralling, making it all about me, something I don’t believe I’ve ever experienced in my 49 years on this planet.”

“Shiva J was incredibly empathetic and allowed me to proceed at my pace. He assured me that I would ease into the experience – and he was absolutely right. The emphasis is on your pleasure, and Shiva J’s expertise is truly profound.”

“I ensured a friend knew my whereabouts and checked in through text; Shiva J’s location is secure and in a prime area of town. He’s affable, hygienic, and considerate. Having an opportunity to disconnect your mind and focus solely on your sensations is incredibly freeing.”

“I’m thrilled to confirm the absence of anything concealed or suspicious here! My satisfaction was complete, and the experience truly enjoyable. Shiva J maintains a highly professional demeanor, fostering comfort from the onset.”

“Shiva J’s communication was personal and devoid of any sordid elements. He was courteous and engaging, diligently addressing my inquiries. Our phone conversation was genuine, as Shiva attentively listened and engaged in sincere dialogue. Everything was professional, respectful, and safe.”

“Shiva J possesses an uncanny ability to alleviate your stress, skillfully approaching your areas of pleasure. His mastery of technique is astounding, fluctuating between gentle teasing and more direct sensations in a manner that resonates with women.”

“The session was nothing short of extraordinary… I walked in doubting what I would feel. I couldn’t quite believe that something like this was accessible to women. Yet, Shiva J’s professionalism immediately put me at peace with the realization that this experience was exclusively mine.”

“I believe that every woman deserves to embark on this unique, tactile journey at least once. The moment I encountered Shiva J, I was filled with ease and comfort. His adeptness and patience in gradually dispelling my reservations were remarkable. His awareness of my pace and provision for breathing space in joyous moments were exceptional. The experience can be summed up in one word: heavenly. Don’t hesitate, treat yourself with this beautiful experience; Shiva J handles everything else.”

“My experience with ShivaJ was incredibly healing. I felt held & safe in his presence. The space was warm & beautiful. I was nervous at first, but he walked me through the whole process before we started, which helped ease my anxiety. He gave me an amazing erotic massage followed by a Yoni massage, and I realized I held a lot of grief there. I cried a lot after the session and he was there to comfort me with a hug and a safe space for me, to process my emotions and move through them. I felt liberated and more open after that experience.”

“I’ve always been curious about the idea of a massage transforming into something more intimate. But I doubted that such a service was even available. One random Saturday, my curiosity got the best of me, and I searched for it online. Shiva J’s website caught my eye, and I knew instantly that I had to try it.

Though I don’t struggle with finding dates, I’ve often felt a lack of excitement with most of the guys I’ve been with. Working at a law firm and being involved with a colleague who was quite inattentive to my needs left me feeling adventurous. When I contacted Shiva J, he responded quickly with an intake form, and I was in a “why not” mood.

We later spoke on the phone, and he detailed the process. The experience would occur at his apartment, starting with a Tea Ceremony and a Tantric Ritual to help make me feel comfortable. The more “sensual” aspect was optional, with the emphasis on mindfulness, presence, and savoring each moment. I was convinced and booked a session.

Upon meeting him, I was pleased to find that he was neither unpleasant nor unprofessional in appearance. In fact, he was quite the opposite! We engaged in friendly conversation, enjoyed tea in his quite tastefully decorated loft, and started with some Tantric Breathing Exercises.

Next, I lay down, and he began a massage with warm coconut oil. His technique was impressive, and he was attentive to my comfort, periodically asking about the pressure. After about an hour, he delicately inquired if I was open to experiencing pleasure. Feeling relaxed and connected, I happily agreed.

The way he touched me was unique and attentive. His gentle caresses and intentional touch were exactly what I needed. When I guided his hands, he skillfully connected with me in a way I hadn’t felt before. The pleasure was profound, leading me to book another session soon after.

Our communication was open, and he was observant, recognizing my body’s reactions. I learned to let go of self-consciousness and embrace the experience fully. At one point, he even helped me stay grounded to maximize my enjoyment.

I’ve never felt any attachment to him, but his calming presence allowed me to focus solely on my pleasure. This experience has brought me a sense of serenity and selectiveness in my relationships with men. I don’t feel the need to seek out casual encounters, and I’ve lost any anxiety surrounding intimacy.

I’ve chosen to keep this experience private, sharing it with no one but you. I agreed to write this review because I believe more women could benefit from it, but I don’t want it to become a social trend among my friends. This is something uniquely mine. However, ladies, I do recommend giving him a try!”

“My session with Shiva J was truly an extraordinary experience. From the moment I walked in, I felt a sense of calm and anticipation. Shiva J’s skilled approach, combined with the power of tantric techniques, created a truly unique and transformative journey. As a first-timer, I was initially a bit nervous, but Shiva J’s welcoming presence and the gentle introduction put me at ease. Through a carefully guided process of relaxation and attunement, I found myself effortlessly surrendering to the moment, allowing the worries and stresses of the outside world to melt away. 

What amazed me the most was how Shiva J tapped into my senses in such a profound way. As my awareness expanded, I discovered a newfound receptivity and nourishment that I had never experienced before. Each touch, each movement, and each sensation seemed perfectly attuned to my needs, igniting a deep sense of exploration and desire within me. Shiva’s intuitive dance of energy and connection was truly mesmerizing. With each stroke, he seemed to unlock hidden pathways within my body, awakening dormant sensations and releasing an incredible flow of energy. It was as if he had a profound understanding of my body and its unique temple-like needs.

The experience with Shiva was a journey of self-discovery and liberation. Through the art of tantra, I was able to tap into a deep well of pleasure and bliss that I had never accessed before. Shiva’s expertise and guidance allowed me to explore my own desires in a safe and sacred space, embracing the fullness of my being. I can confidently say that Shiva is a master of his craft. His ability to unleash the dormant energies within me was awe-inspiring. I left the session feeling revitalized, rejuvenated, and with a renewed sense of inner harmony. The fire of life, the Shakti, burned brighter within me than ever before.

I highly recommend Shiva J to anyone seeking a truly transformative and fulfilling tantric massage experience. His intuitive touch and profound understanding of the human body and its potential for pleasure are unmatched. Prepare to embark on a journey that will awaken your senses, nourish your soul, and leave you with an undeniable sense of bliss. Thank you, Shiva J, for an unforgettable experience.🔥”

“As a married woman, I was initially hesitant to explore this type of massage. However, from the moment we spoke on the phone, I knew I would be in good hands. I felt completely comfortable and at ease throughout the session and even disrobed in front of a man for the first time in over a decade! His presence was calming and grounding, and I felt like I could completely let go and surrender to the experience. The massage itself was beyond words. Shiva J used his intuitive touch to awaken every inch of my body and bring me to new heights of pleasure. I felt sensations that I had never experienced before, and I felt completely free and uninhibited. It was like he was able to tap into my deepest desires and fulfill them in ways that I never thought were possible. I really appreciated his professionalism and respect for boundaries and the way he assured me. He made sure that I was comfortable with every aspect of the massage and checked in with me throughout to make sure I was enjoying myself and feeling safe. He also made it clear that he was there to provide a service and not to cross any boundaries that I was not comfortable with. Overall, I would highly recommend Shiva J to any woman who is looking for a transformative and deeply pleasurable experience. He provides a service that every woman desires but doesn’t know exists, and he does it with the utmost professionalism, respect, and care.”

“I recently had the pleasure of receiving a Tantric/Erotic Massage from the truly gifted and compassionate male practitioner known as Shiva J. I cannot say enough good things about his skills and the experience he provided for me. First of all, his masculine presence was incredibly grounding and reassuring. As a professional woman who is used to being in control, I was initially nervous about surrendering to the experience. However, he put me completely at ease with his calm and confident demeanor. I felt safe and respected throughout the entire session. The massage itself was beyond amazing. His touch was so intuitive and sensual, and he moved with such grace and fluidity. I felt like I was in a dream, completely lost in the sensations he was evoking in my body. He paid attention to every little detail, from the lighting and music to the temperature of the room, to create a truly immersive and unforgettable experience. But what truly sets this practitioner apart is his compassionate and kind-hearted nature. He truly cares about his clients and goes above and beyond to make sure they feel comfortable and cared for. He took the time to listen to my needs and desires before the session and checked in with me throughout to make sure I was enjoying myself and feeling safe. Overall, I cannot recommend this practitioner highly enough and will surely be returning for more pleasure sessions soon. If you are looking for a truly transformational and deeply healing Tantric/Erotic Massage experience, look no further. You will not be disappointed!”